How do you feel about Handmade Gifts?
Making them? Receiving them?
Growing up, my grandmother, who considered herself "crafty," would spend copious amounts of time and energy creating homemade Christmas gifts for her grandkids. One year, she appliqued atrocious floral fabric onto sweatshirts, which she then 'blinged up' by adding puffy glitter paint and rhinestones. They were hideous. Absolutely hideous. I don't think I ever wore mine, and neither did my siblings or cousins. So, while my grandmother might have had good intentions, the gifts were unwanted and unappreciated.
It's been twenty years since I last thought of those horrendous sweatshirts. Over the Christmas holiday, I heard tell of how my cousin entered an ugly sweater contest with hers and WON! After chuckling about it a bit and reminiscing about all the awful handmade gifts from Grandma I also felt a little horrified and sick to my stomach. Have I become the 'Grandma' of my generation, cranking out handmade gifts with good intentions that are neither wanted nor appreciated???
You see, I spent a considerable amount of time and effort this year making handmade gifts for my nieces and nephews. I made 5 quiet books for the under 3 crowd. I enjoyed making them and imagining how each child would enjoy playing with theirs. I think they turned out pretty darn fantastic, but it tugs on my soul that of the 5 books, only 3 have been acknowledged. I'm left wondering about the other two. Were they appreciated? Did the kids like them? Or, am I being mocked and ridiculed behind my back, kind of like how I treated my own grandma with her handmade crafts?
Perhaps it's time to quit making handmade gifts for anyone other than my own children.
And that's my two cents...